Rules and Guides

Rules, the necessary part; be sure you are familiar with them.
Guides, the fun part; learn how to get verified and how our ranks are defined.

What you will find on this page:

rules cuckoldchat
Legal Rules
Be sure to follow and accept these rules

- YOU MUST be 18+ to chat here.
- NO pics or talk about minor / underage of any kind, incest, QA*
- NO chat about incest or talk about dau/son/family/family fantasies. Neither in role play!
- NO Revenge porn.
- NO Full names, ID cards, Doxing, Exposing.
- NO sharing of social media
- By using the chat you agree with our terms of use

Breaking these rules above will give you an (auto)ban without warning

*QA = "Questionable Age": If she looks to young and we are not sure she is 18+, we consider it as QA. That is a ban. Discussing QA "but she is 19" is not an option, if she looks too young, we do not take any risk

Note: You always find the most updated version of rules in chat. All rules need to be accepted on first login, and need to be accepted again when we make any changes.
If you do not accept the rules you will be logged out.

chatroom rules
Extra specific Rules + Repost Policy
Extra chatroom rules:

- NO urls (auto mute you for 15 min).
- DO not spam
- NO watermarked images
- DO NOT post the same pic repeatedly.
- MALE / dick pics only in LGBTQI+ or tribute room.
- NO thumbnails (min pic size 800x600p pix
- NO screenshots of folders / windows explorer
- NO Hate, Racism, Disrespect.
- NO Bestiality, gore
- NO Flooding, trolling, scamming etc
- MODS decide if you are flooding-trolling
- DO NOT SHOUT, NO CAPITALS. (=kick 1 day)
- We reserve the right to delete anything we deem unsuitable or distasteful (MOD decide)
- You are only allowed to upload material of which you are the intellectual owner.

DOUBLE ACCOUNTS POLICY

Some users may register multiple accounts, which is generally allowed (max 2) For instance, if you have both a "cuck" and a "bull" side. But simultaneous login to both accounts is strictly prohibited. Such actions are considered cheating or manipulating the system for double gold mining.. We can detect it and will lead to an immediate ban

REPOST policy:

REPOST ONLY when cuck is in the room*
REPOST ONLY when cuck agrees with reposting*
REPOSTING without cuck permission: 24 hour kick
TAG/MENTION the user you are reposting. To prevent confusion.

REPORT policy:

- Contact the poster first **
- Do not start a battlefield in chat.
- Report to an online mod
- Or use report tool

**Have a talk first When it comes to reposting without persmission for example, to talk to the guy. There are not always bad intentions, maybe you can solve it together, without reporting it immediatly to the 321 police ;). If the poster ignores you or doenst accept your request, proceed to reporting. Do not forget you take risks when sharing pics in public.

Note that every take down request will be honored of course.
Please read our full legal terms here.

Note: You always find the most updated version of rules in chat. All rules need to be accepted on first login, and need to be accepted again when we make any changes.
If you do not accept the rules you will be logged out.

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Uploaded pics policy

Never share your pictures anywhere on the internet if you don't want them to be downloaded by others. 

Please do realize that when you post in chat all other chatters can download the pics you upload. Also in verified room other verified users can download your pictures. Although fellow verified might have more respect for your privacy, you never know if they save your pics or not. There is no option to prevent that. Be aware of that.

We have strict repost policy in our chatroom, but we do not have control over what people do with your material outside our chat ! Never share your pictures anywhere on the internet if you don't want them to be downloaded by others. Take your own responsibility for this. 321cuckold is not liable for downloading of your pics by other chatters and/or people posting your pics to other websites. You are only allowed to upload material of which you are the intellectual property owner. For full disclosure see our terms of use.

Policy of 321cuckold:

All uploads to chatroom and private messages are automatically deleted from our server after 2 days*. 321cukcold respects your privacy. For full disclosure read our privacy policy and terms of use.

*except profile pics, profile gallery pics.


Get verified to get the most out of our cuckold chat,
claim your trustworthy status as verified chatter :)

Click the button below or click here to go back to the chat

ranks

Benefits per rank

Ranks explained - A rank for every individual !

Verified pic owner
The rank for cuckold hubbies, non-single male who like to share pics of their wife or girlfriend. Verified pic owners have proven to be the original pic owner. We do not allow random "web pics" and we do not encourage exposure. The process is simple; proof us you have acces to room where the original pic has been taken. You receive the "trustworthy" anti-fake status.

Trusted reposter
The rank for bull, hung male, or reposters. They can aim for our "Trusted Reposter or Bull" rank to gain access to verified rooms. This is a special protected rank, and you need a verified cuckold who vouches for you as a trustworthy person. He shares responsibility for your behavior. Trusted reposter have the same options as verified, see rank sheet below or on the right.

Verified hotwives / couples (VIP)
The rank for real cuckold hotwives (female chatters) or couples. The female need to pose with our badge and you received VIP rank with many benefits.

Verified bi-male / sissy
The bi-male /sissy rank is for single bi-male and single sissy individuals*. It allows them to showcase their status as either a bi-male or a sissy and provides them with their own pride verified room.

We do not permit regular solo heterosexual males to verify. Why? The answer is straightforward: Allowing every individual to verify would undermine the entire purpose of our pic owner/cuckold verification process. This is also why verified bi-males/sissies CANNOT enter the regular verified rooms, but besides that they enjoy the same benefits of the regular verified rank, see rank sheet below or on the right.

However... as a bull, hung male, or heterosexual male looking for cuckold hotwives, you can aim for our "Trusted Reposter or Bull" rank 

*And... Are you a sissy with a wife & do you share your wives pics? You can also choose to do the verified pic owner verification, to verify as hubby.

Verified Pic Owner Guide
Verified
Acces verified rooms

"This ranking is for husbands who enjoy sharing pictures of their wives or girlfriends and want to prove themselves as the original picture owners."

How to become a verified cuck/hubby/stag?

Trusted Bull
Trusted
Trusted bull or reposter

"This ranking is for bulls or reposters who have earned a trustworthy status. How? Read the guide."




How to become a trusted bull/reposter?

Female VIP
VIP
VIP-Verified

"This ranking is for single females or real cuckold couples with a hotwife who pose with our badge."




How to become a verified hotwife?

Verified sissymale
Bi male / sissy
Verified bi males 

"This ranking is for single bisexual males. This rank grants you access to the verified bi room, but NOT to verified cuckold rooms"



How to become a verified bi-male or sissy?

How to become a verified cuck/hubby/stag?

Important: verified pic owners are expected to post their OWN verified wife or girlfriend.
Are you (re)posting for an online friend? Clearly mention that you (re)post his wife/gf. 
Or better: register a second account for your bull/reposter side. See: Trusted reposter.

Do you have questions after reading this 4-step guide? Scroll down to see more verification FAQs
Please ensure your verification is accurate before uploading.
Incorrect verifications will result in a ban. Review the provided examples here

More verification examples below

verified cuck original
John Smith
(1) High quality original pic

Select a HIGH QUALITY and recent pic of your wife or girlfriend. 

- Send Original size pic
- No screenshots of a pic
- No blurry or noisy pic: HQ


Nude or dressed,
both are okay.
She does not need to be nude.

321cuckold verification badge
Sarah Palmer
(2) Print the badge

Print this 321cuckold BADGE.

Cannot print? ..then:
- Use a tablet 
- WRITE out by hand*


Simply write "321cuckold verification badge + chatname + date"


verified cuck proof
Jessica Swift
(3) Take verification pic

Show the badge in the SAME ROOM as seen in step 1.

Take a pic of and upload your verification here or by e-mail.

- Send the original photo
No downsized small pics, its 2024 and you just took this verification pic. Small sized pics are a flag for a fake.

Verified pic owner
Helen Smith
Verified rank

After your pics are checked  you will be upgraded within 24h to verified rank with green checkmark.

We reserve the right to ask you for a new one if for some reason your pics are unclear.
Be sure to send original and high quality pics !
Sent your upload in chat via the green button "how to get verified"

Verification fails

Correct & Incorrect verification. Thanks St4gnl for supplying these examples.

Correct VS incorrect verifications


I'd like to emphasize the importance of carefully reading the verification rules and examples. In recent days, I've noticed several uploads without the required badge or old CC uploads with a thumbs up. Unfortunately, we cannot accept these submissions; we need to ensure that each verification is authentic and follows the 321 verification process. Again, I've received the message "I cannot print" a few times.

I don't want to come across as a stubborn guy, but we've provided extensive information, including guides, FAQs, video instructions, and examples It's emphasized everywhere that you can also write it out with paper and pencil. Also I've seen pictures of filled-in batches, but they're not shown in the same room as the wife.

When you initiate the verification process, we expect a valid one. Any invalid verifications will result in a ban.

While this may not sound very friendly; we don't want to spend our time on individuals who aren't willing to invest their own time in reading our rules and reviewing the examples. 

f you're a female chatter, please follow the Female verification process: You'll need to take a photo with the badge yourself. Detailed instructions and all the information you need can be found in the Female verification section."

Verified hotwife? (female chatters / cuck couples)

Are you a female chatter and do you consider yourself as a hotwife?
Simply pose with our badge / logo.

- Please add your chat name and today's date.
- Mare sure it is a clear and high resolution pic.
- Pic need to be full body from knees to top of the head.
- Face is nice but not mandatory, you do not need to expose yourself, you can hide your face:
you can look to the side, wear a mask or blur your face.
- You do not need to be nude.

We need two pics of the female holding the badge, taken from two different positions.
 Send the original photo: No downsized small pics, its 2024 and you just took this verification pic. Small sized pics are a flag for a fake.

Sent your verification pics here
All verification will be kept 100% private unless otherwise agreed (such as the example here)
Do not sent your verification pics to other persons than Doublefister or Aquarius.

This procedure is also valid for post-op transgender females and couples with an "aware" wife.
Read below more about our extra security to prevent abuse of female profiles. 

verifiedfemale
VIP EroticDoodler
verified couple female
VIP FinnishBBCslut_Mr
cuckoldcouple bbw wife
CuckoldCouple92

Submit your verification

Since April 2024 we fully integrated the verification in chat.
You can upload your verification pics in chat by clicking the green "How to get verified" button in the menu.

There you also find all the most up to date instructions again,
so please read and ensure your verification is accurate before uploading.
Incorrect verifications will result in a mute or ban. Review the most common mistakes here

We do not accept verification by e-mail, any chatter can use the integrated system.
Do not send your verification to others. We can only assure the privacy of your verification when uploaded via the integrated system.
verification

How to become a trusted bull / reposter?


Trusted  bull / reposter is a protected status. 
Benefits: as trusted bull / reposter you can enter the verified rooms

REPOST ONLY when cuck is in the room
REPOST ONLY when cuck agrees with reposting.

Do not post your own wife as reposter !
Do like both sides of cuckoldry? Register a second "cuck" account
.

verified bull
John Smith
Simple: get references !

A verified cuck need to vouch for you. That verified cucks need to send a PM to Aquarius, Fat Thor or Doublefister in chat  that you are a fair, trustable and respectfull reposter. Reposters respect the cucks limts. Reposting does not equal exposing. We do not encourage exposure.

verified reposter
Sarah Palmer
Trusted reposter / bull

After we spoke with the verified cuck who vouch for you (he is your reference and takes responsibility for your behavior) we will upgrade you to the trusted reposter rank.


You will get a "trusted reposter" blue-checkmark

Fair guy
Jessica Swift
VERIFIED CUCK WARNING:

Note that when you vouch for for a reposter, you take responsibility for his behavior here. IF he breaks rules, the consequences are for both of you.  Never vouch for random guys!
This is a protected status, so be sure we only verify the real fair and trustable reposters

Bulls
Helemith
Limit / Cool down period

Each verified cuck can vouch for max 2 reposters.

The reposter/bull account your are vouching for must be at least 7 days old.

How to get verified as bi-male or sissy??

"Pose with our rainbow badge; that's all - get more chat options"

Note: with this rank, you showcase your pride status and are recognized as a genuine, non-fake chatter.
You can enter the special verified rainbow room but not the verified room for cuckold hubbies.

This restriction is in place to maintain the integrity of verifying cuckold hubbies who share pictures of their wives/girlfriends or hotwives.
Allowing any single male to verify would compromise the entire purpose of cuckold/pic owner verification.
Therefore, only bisexual males and sissies can verify to provide them access to our verified rainbow/gay/pride rooms."

Despite the fact that the verified cuckold room isn't for you,
you still enjoy the benefits of all the extra options available to verified users,
such as username color, quoting posts, using the multi-pic upload tool, removing your own posts, and more.
Refer to the rank sheet for details.
321rainbow badge
Step 1:  Print or write out the badge

You can print this badge, show it on a tablet, or take a pencil and paper, and write it our by hand.

Note; when registering at chat you choose your gender; male / female / sissy-cd-tg etc. We do not offer "couple". Are you a couple? Then each need to register his/her own profile for verification.


Each individual (male or female or sissy) poses with our badge to verify, as described in step 2.

gay sissy chat verification 1
Step 2: Take 2 selfies with badge

Hold the badge (written on printed) in your hand and pose with it. Thats it.

- Males: Be nude or wear underwear
- Sissy/cd/tv/tg : Wear Lingerie / be "sexy dressed as"
- Females: Be nude or wear lingerie.

- Take 2 pics from 2 different angles.

- Full body.
- Face is not mandatory.

Are you registered as sissy/cd/tv ? Then be "dressed as" when taking your verification pic.

upload
Step 3: Upload your verification

Upload your verification via the upload button above  or send them by e-mail.

When your verification is valid, you will be upgraded within 24h

Find more examples below

Note sure about your verification? More examples below. (posted with agreement of the persons involved)

We reserve the right to reject your verification and ask for a new one when it is unclear or incorrect. Make sure to follow the guidelines as described in step 1-2. 

Verification FAQ

Verification pics does not need to include face, as long as we can see the "body" matches the wife you share.

Nude? No, as you can see in the example above, she isn't nude. Of course it can be a nude if you want.

The bi-male /sissy rank is for bi-male and sissy individuals. It allows them to showcase their status as either a bi-male or a sissy and provides them with their own pride verified room. We do not permit regular solo heterosexual males to verify. Why? The answer is straightforward: Allowing every individual to verify would undermine the entire purpose of our pic owner/cuckold verification process. This is also why verified bi-males/sissies CANNOT enter the regular verified rooms.

However, as a bull, hung male, or heterosexual male, you can aim for our "Trusted Reposter or Bull" rank to gain access to all verified rooms. This is a special protected rank, and you need a verified cuckold who vouches for you as a trustworthy person. He shares responsibility for your behavior. More info here

Are you a cuckold sissy with a wife? Then go for the regular verified pic owner or VIP verification !

Simple: take a new original pic ;) That's why we ask you to use a recent pic.  

If you are reading this you did not have read step 2 very well ;)  You can also show the badge on tablet, or write out by hand. Make sure your write today's date and your chat username. More examples here.

You can send your verification here.

We are both in Europe, so lets say our nighttime it can take a bit. Do not sent your verification to anybody else. 

Yes. All verifications are 100% private and safe with us. Make sure you use the upload button above.

The uploaded pics are only visibile to Aquarius (owner) and Doublefister. (co-founder).
If you sent to others we do not have control over your verification pics.
We do trust our mod team, but as owner and co-founder we want to keep this private information within our own responsibility.

We also want to prevent people sent it to random chatters (no staff) by accident. So we keep it limited to Aquarius and Doublefister.
The verification published on this webpage as examples are published with full agreement of the pic owner.

Female chatter policy: protection when abuse of pics is expected.

It is a given fact, unfortunately, that "female" profiles on sex chats are often fake (luckily not all). 
We do everything in our reach to protect females from their pics being used with identity theft, guys pretending to be them. 

If we suspect a "female" profile isn't real and is using pics of another real female; for example verified females of other chats,
we ask for verification. If you cannot verify, we have to ban. We do that to prevent exposure and abuse. Protection of wives.

We might be wrong and falsely ban a chatter, but...
Better 10 wives mad at me for a false ban than 1 wife mad at me for her pics being used by a faker !
Sorry girls, better safe than sorry !

Are you banned because of this and do you like to proof we are wrong? Verify !
Note: you do not need to expose yourself with verification, pics do not need to be nude, pics do not need to show face.
Verification is 100% private. See the block above for all information.





We respect your privacy

  • Private verification. We do not share your verification pics. These remain private, unless otherwise agreed. We might ask you if we can post the verification on our wall of verifications.  We DO NOT post there without your agreement.
  • Image retention. All images in public and private chats are deleted from our server after max 48 hours. We -as some other chats do- DO NOT use your pics to show in our community (unless we agreed). 
  • Take down. Did you regret posting something in the main room? STAFF can delete the post. 

  • Please read our full privacy statement here.

321cuckold video introduction & guides

Shirley welcomes you to our chat and tells you how to get verified
ranks of cuck chat

New rank sheet 2024 - Subject to typos or changes

Who will be the richest in chat?

Forget Kudo's... We've got Gold.  How does it make you feel, pimping your wife or girlfriend for virtual money? Become a rich pimp, make smart deals and gain a highscore in gold with your wife or girlfriend.

  • View your gold balance in profile in chat,
  • Earn  80 FREE GOLD by being online in chat.
  • Share GOLD to other users (power user or higher).
  • Become the richest at 321cuckoldchat

Ways to make gold besides being online:

  • Trade smart for example; "I share full on/of for 100 gold"*. Be creative
  • 1000 GOLD for verifying yourself
  • Keep an eye on news posts in chat. The might earn you extra GOLD.

*Have a look at our "Wives of Wallstreet" room where cucks are trading special pics for GOLD.  Become the richest, look at "Top Gold Members" in left menu.

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